For cancer caregivers in the United States

Your spouse was just diagnosed. Here's what to actually do.

I'm Gil Luxenbourg. Twenty-plus years working with cancer caregivers and their patients. The framework I wish every caregiver had in the first month after diagnosis — yours, free.

Free 12-page guide

What to Ask Your Spouse's Oncologist About Supportive Care

The 12 questions every caregiver should bring to the next appointment. With how to read the answers and what to do if the doctor is vague.

What you'll get inside

What to know in the first 7 days after diagnosis
The questions to ask the oncology team before the next appointment
The supportive-care framework most caregivers learn by Googling at 11pm — distilled into a working document
A one-page script for the conversation with your spouse's doctor

Why me

I'm a 22-year patient. I founded my country's first patient education program. I hold a US Patent. I've advised three governments on regulatory framework. I'm not a doctor — I'm the patient who built what the doctors weren't building.

Cancer caregivers get my full attention because the supportive-care gap is biggest exactly when the patient can least afford it.

Every guide says "start low and go slow." Nobody tells you what "low" means for someone on FOLFOX. Nobody tells you what "slow" means around a chemo cycle. I do.