For adult children caring for aging parents

You're managing her care from another state. The protocol load doesn't have to be on you.

I'm Gil Luxenbourg. Twenty-plus years of patient education, including elderly patients with complex conditions. The framework the daughter is usually the only one trying to figure out — yours, free.

Free 15-page guide

The Remote Daughter's Conversation Scripts

Three conversations you've been avoiding — handled. With your parent's doctor. With siblings who second-guess you. With your parent themselves.

What you'll get inside

Falls risk and drug interactions — the two things every daughter worries about (and what to actually watch for)
How to introduce supportive care to a parent who's skeptical
How to coordinate with her doctor without creating conflict
A one-page script for the conversation with your siblings

Why me

I'm a 22-year patient. I founded my country's first patient education program. I hold a US Patent. I've advised three governments. I'm not a doctor — I'm the patient who built what the doctors weren't building.

I work with families on protocols for elderly patients with complex conditions so the daughter doesn't have to also become the expert. I do the protocol design. You do the daughter part.

Every general guide says "start low and go slow." Nobody tells you what "low" is for a 78-year-old on five other medications. I do.